cyber love tips no 1

• Keep in regular contact, become a communication expert, if you aren’t going to be able to be online when you said make sure you use every means available to let your lover know. I will send a text, use skype (thank god for skype!), email, and if you are able to phone. I find I worry so much if Indigo isn’t there when he says he will be, it’s not like living down the road and being able to pop in a check. Communication is THE key to a successful cyber relationship.
  
• Don’t forget to court the person you’re with, yes you can’t take the person to the movies, or out for dinner, but you can send ecards, and virtual hugs, Indigo and I used to send each other long email on the night we couldn’t be together, I remember once Indigo sent me beautiful flowers to my work, just because he loved me! Remember if the net brought you together, use it, you can literally do anything on it, and it’s not reason to not spoil each other and let your lover know you love them.
  
  
  
• Plan dates, like you would in Real life, plan what you’re going to do together, plan things.
  Send sexy photo’s, this is no time to be shy, hot photo’s are great , but be selective, don’t send it all at once.
  
• Get creative on webcam, Be naughty, outrageous, I shocked myself by giving myself a veggie fuck on webcam while Indigo watched! He loved it and it made us laugh and have great cyber sex!
  
• This is totally different to a Real life relationship, You need to be very naughty on webcam. And anything that pops into your head to do, try it! OK the fucking myself with a ice lolly wasn’t a great idea, but hey it felt good…..for a while!
  
• Be there when you’re needed, Indigo has spent many a night, and day with me crying in his ear, telling him my troubles, he is always my best friend and will listen to anything I need to talk about. And I have done the same for him.
  Remember there are great sides to this, I have talked to Indigo more than I have ever talked to anyone else, we know almost everything about each other. Sometimes it is so much easier to chat in the cyber world than in Real life.
  
• Girls, keep your lip-gloss next to the bed! For those late night touch ups!
  
• Go out and buy amazing underwear, do a online strip tease!
  
• Be honest as well it’s hard to know what’s going on around a webcam, so if real life is calling, tell your lover, other wise you’ll start resenting the other, or you will come across as distracted, or worse you that you aren’t interested.
  
• And last but not least tell your lover you love them regularly

Love Violet xxx