Warm Up and Welcome

Good cyber-sex, like good real-life sex requires a combination of chemistry, enthusiasm and technique. So you're out the net, you find a sexy partner, and wow, the chemistry is there. Enthusiasm? Well that's a given. Then you lean in for that first virtual kiss--and things go downhill from there. Thud!

This blog is about creative collaboration of the dirty kind (cybersex), and how to have a GREAT time doing it.

It's written by Violet and Indigo whose cyber-relationship has crossed the ocean and blossomed into a life-altering romance. Perhaps some of our experiences will inspire your own adventures!

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Thursday, July 31, 2008

My Remote Bedside Manner

Poor Violet was recently in the hospital. As usual she wasn't allowed to use her phone to talk, but she left it on anyway so I could text her. She couldn't reply because the nurses could hear her, although she did sneak a few message back to me. How could I resist a captive audience? I sent these messages from Skype, which is nice because I have them to post here.

  • 9:15am (Indigo) You know what I really want to do with you? I want to hire a small plane with a good looking pilot. I'll sit in the back seat with you...

  • 9:16am (Indigo) Nibbling on your ear as you look out the window.... sliding my hand up your blouse and undoing your bra... kissing your neck...

  • 9:20am (Indigo) Exposing your breasts... the poor pilot turns his head and gasps when he sees how amazing they are... I ask if he minds if we take our seat belts off.

  • 9:22am (Indigo) He doesn't mind so I take mine off... you take yours off... and I unzip your pants... you lift yourself up and I slide your panties down.

  • 9:23am (Indigo) I toss your panties to the pilot and he takes a long, slow appreciative whiff. You giggle, obviously loving it.... with some effort I maneuver to lick your pussy.

  • 9:24am (Indigo) One leg draped over my shoulder, the pilot has full view, which he takes every once in awhile. You have to remind him to watch the controls.

  • 9:26am (Indigo) You start moaning when I begin finger fucking you, you gasp and realize that you don't be quiet... You're about to cum so I stop.

  • 9:29am (Indigo) I take my pants off exposing my hard cock, I help you get onto the seat, your face toward the window, your knees on the padding between the seats.

  • 9:28am (Violet) You bad boy! Making me horny when I'm already breathless! Baby I want you so much!

  • 9:30am (Indigo) Oh? Is this making you horny? I'm just telling you what I'm thinking about. Don't you want to know what's on my mind. Communication, right?

  • 9:32am (Indigo) Now I'm going to fuck you from behind... Enjoying the scenery? I slide myself into you and slap your ass as you press back into me...

  • 9:34am (Indigo) Now the pilot takes his cock out and starts stroking it... you tell him he has a nice looking cock and he smiles.

  • 9:36am (Indigo) I nod to you and you reach over the seat and start stroking his cock... he moans as you feel a twitch under your touch, I move about and re-enter you from behind.

  • 9:41am (Violet) Honey I'm so horny you're driving me mad!!!

  • 9:41am (Indigo) He starts playing with your nipple while you stroke, tugging on it... he's encouraged as you hiss yessssssss...

  • 9:41am (Indigo) I play with your other nipple... Like having two men playing with your tits? I reach around and spread your pussy so I can fuck you deeper.

  • 9:41am (Indigo) My fingers explore your clit while I slam into you... the pilots seat is jarring, his head rocks with each thrust... I'm going to cum in you baby!

  • 9:43am (Indigo) You feel his cock twitch and you gasp "Oh my god!" as he cums all over your fist. You feel me buck against me about to cum as you release.

  • 9:43am (Indigo) All of which is too much for me and I make a final thrust, cumming inside you...

  • 9:45am (Indigo) You horny baby? Gonna cum for me under the covers? Want me under there licking you?

  • 10:01am (Indigo) Have a happy horny day baby! I love you so much! Hope I relieved some boredom.
I'm on the phone with Violet as I write this. She tells me that initially she was just smiling when she read the first few messages, thinking that I was a "naughty boy" but then she got carried away with the mood. She started very gently brushing her hands over her nipples in a way that others couldn't see. She then says she went into a semi-dreamlike state and played the fantasy in her head. Unfortunately she couldn't actually cum because there where too many people about. She's NOT very good at quietly cumming in public... well, there was the one time at the party... but that's a story for another day.

By the way, are there any small plane pilots reading this?

Love,
Indigo

Monday, July 28, 2008

cyber love tips no 1

  • Keep in regular contact, become a communication expert, if you aren’t going to be able to be online when you said make sure you use every means available to let your lover know. I will send a text, use skype (thank god for skype!), email, and if you are able to phone. I find I worry so much if Indigo isn’t there when he says he will be, it’s not like living down the road and being able to pop in a check. Communication is THE key to a successful cyber relationship.
  • Don’t forget to court the person you’re with, yes you can’t take the person to the movies, or out for dinner, but you can send ecards, and virtual hugs, Indigo and I used to send each other long email on the night we couldn’t be together, I remember once Indigo sent me beautiful flowers to my work, just because he loved me! Remember if the net brought you together, use it, you can literally do anything on it, and it’s not reason to not spoil each other and let your lover know you love them.


  • Plan dates, like you would in Real life, plan what you’re going to do together, plan things.
    Send sexy photo’s, this is no time to be shy, hot photo’s are great , but be selective, don’t send it all at once.
  • Get creative on webcam, Be naughty, outrageous, I shocked myself by giving myself a veggie fuck on webcam while Indigo watched! He loved it and it made us laugh and have great cyber sex!
  • This is totally different to a Real life relationship, You need to be very naughty on webcam. And anything that pops into your head to do, try it! OK the fucking myself with a ice lolly wasn’t a great idea, but hey it felt good…..for a while!
  • Be there when you’re needed, Indigo has spent many a night, and day with me crying in his ear, telling him my troubles, he is always my best friend and will listen to anything I need to talk about. And I have done the same for him.
    Remember there are great sides to this, I have talked to Indigo more than I have ever talked to anyone else, we know almost everything about each other. Sometimes it is so much easier to chat in the cyber world than in Real life.

  • Girls, keep your lip-gloss next to the bed! For those late night touch ups!
  • Go out and buy amazing underwear, do a online strip tease!
  • Be honest as well it’s hard to know what’s going on around a webcam, so if real life is calling, tell your lover, other wise you’ll start resenting the other, or you will come across as distracted, or worse you that you aren’t interested.
  • And last but not least tell your lover you love them regularly

Love Violet xxx

Violet




The internet changed my life completely and forever! In the beginning of 2007 I was in a horrible relationship, and had been in it for almost 20 years! I was bored, and fed up with life in general, then one day I was at the doctors, reading a article and out popped this intriguing article about a web game called Second Life, I remember clearly it said, that it was amazing fun and very addictive. Up until then the net had only been for sending email, and to do online shopping. So that night when my then husband went to work instead of sitting being bored and binging on rubbish I created a character and logged on! Within minutes I was cyber chatting to the sweetest man, who taught me so much….. And within days I was having the most mind blowing cybersex!
I had believed, or been convinced , that I had become frigid until then!. I was so addicted, I couldn’t wait until my ex went to work. I encouraged him to do as much overtime as possible so I could log on and that night be sexy, attractive, young, naughty me. I could meet someone new and have mind blowing sex, no strings attached! Some of the men I met were more special than others and we would have a cyber relationship for a while. I felt amazing, I could attract any man and have them eating out of my hand, (and out of other portions of my anatomy) within minutes. It changed me in real life to, I realised I was a attractive woman, I could attract men, and my self confidence was being restored.
I was having the time of my life, and then one day someone started teasing me, and being really cheeky. Up until then I had always had the upper hand with my lover, always had them begging for more, but this man was different! I had finally met my match….the man who is my soul mate, my lover, my best friend, and all my dreams come true.
We'll share more about us as this blog progresses, and since we'll publish anonymously we won't hold anything back. We'll share our stories of our online adventures and through a bit in about our long-distance relations ship and frequent meetings with you. And of course we'll talk about cybersex and keeping online cyber relationships red hot. I hope you'll come back and see us often!
Love Violet xxx

Sunday, July 27, 2008

Credentials Baby!

My first experience with cyber-sex happened sometime in the late 80's on a very primitive text-only service called "People Link". My former wife and I chatted ourselves into severe debt on that thing, but what a rush! We could get online every night and fool around with a different partner, what could be better.
Often she'd be chatting with some guy and I'd be standing behind her reading over her shoulder, massaging her nipples through her shirt, or I'd be typing and she'd be under the table sucking me off while I read the conversation to her. Sometimes rather than sitting on the chair in front of the keyboard she'd be bent over it, and I'd be standing behind her fucking her while she described exactly what was happening to some eager listener on the other end of the conversation. Ah, good times...
Then the $600 bill came and that was the end of that until 1993 when my wife and I joined the Sierra Network, which was renamed ImagiNation. It didn't take long to find the Married Life room where naturally most of the sex was going on (very little of it between people who were married to each other!). Nobody gets hot and heavy like bored married people. Alas, my ImagiNation bill also exceeded my budget, but fortunately this was the dawn of the internet and the rise of cheap cyber-debautury. One of my cyber-lovers (I wish I could remember her name) helped me get started and soon I was on IRC (internet relay chat) getting my rocks off--for nothing more than the cost of the monthly internet connection.
Over the years I've played online quite a bit, met dozens of great people, and had some amazing fantasy lovers. One of these lover's became my real life partner and co-author (if she gets her very sexy ass in gear!)
What I'm trying to say here, is I've been around the servers a few times and have a thing to say about love on the internet. I'd like to share some of my ideas and observations with like minded people and see what we figure out. Want to encourage me? Subscribe!

Love, Indigo