Warm Up and Welcome

Good cyber-sex, like good real-life sex requires a combination of chemistry, enthusiasm and technique. So you're out the net, you find a sexy partner, and wow, the chemistry is there. Enthusiasm? Well that's a given. Then you lean in for that first virtual kiss--and things go downhill from there. Thud!

This blog is about creative collaboration of the dirty kind (cybersex), and how to have a GREAT time doing it.

It's written by Violet and Indigo whose cyber-relationship has crossed the ocean and blossomed into a life-altering romance. Perhaps some of our experiences will inspire your own adventures!

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Wednesday, August 27, 2008

News from Violet and Indigo

We probably won't be blogging much this week because we're enjoying some rare time physically together. Violet is snoozing soundly in bed next to me as I write this, and I couldn't be happier (unless of course she were awake and fucking my brains out--jet lag sucks!) Oh well... here, I'll cop a feel of her sexy ass for all of you. Tomorrow I'll take some pictures for the blog.

Last night the sex was amazing, which tends to happen after too very horny lovers see each other after six weeks. Toward the end of our play we discovered something a new. We were both pretty fucked out, but I started playing with Violet's clit in an unusual way. I held the hood of her button between my thumb and middle finger, gently pinching. As I did I could feel her clit under the covering suddenly slip. I relaxed my fingers, and then did it again. It was really just intended as intimate touching as we fell asleep, but soon Violet was telling me it felt amazing, but that she was too tired to cum. After awhile I introduced my index finger to touch the tip of her clitoris as it slipped (always like to wait a bit for direct stimulation), and that drove Violet wild. Violet held off cumming for quite awhile (I was impressed) but when she came, she came big. I don't think the guy in the next hotel room got any sleep.

On the down side, Violet wasn't too happy today to find out that her account on Facebook had been deleted. This is the second time. Anyone care to explain that? Personally I think it's someone bullying her, but we'll never know. Facebook doesn't even bother to tell you what the problem is or give you a way of appealing their decision. All her friends, at least the ones that didn't join "Friends of HotterChat" are gone.

That's all for now. Both of us have a post in the works so it's possible you'll see something before our trip is through, but don't hold your breath!

Love,
Indigo (And Violet, in her dreams)

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Soaking

I called Violet at lunch time yesterday. The conversation went something like this:

Indigo: Hi honey, what are you doing right now?
Violet: Just lying on the bed looking at Facebook.
Indigo: I'm driving to the sub shop to get a sandwich for lunch. Listen, I need to you check something for me.
Violet: Okay, what?
Indigo: Slide a finger into your pussy and tell me if you taste yummy.
Violet: Oh god.... Okay.... mmmm yes, yummy.
Indigo: Mmmmm I knew it, just thought I ought to check.
Violet: Actually, it tastes particularly good for some reason, oh my god...
Indigo: I'm sure it does baby...
Violet: No, I mean it, sweet tasting, oh my god, I wonder why? Mmmmmm!
Indigo: (laughs) Going back for more?
Violet: Yeah!
Indigo: I wish I could have some. Listen, I have an idea. Go get a pair of panties. One you won't mind parting with.
Violet: Why?
Indigo: When you see me next week, I want you to bring me a present. It's the only thing I want from you.
Violet: All my knickers are nice, you know that. What do you want me to do?
Indigo: Do you have them yet?
Violet: I'm getting them.
Indigo: Take your clothes off.
Violet: Okay.
Indigo: Put on the panties.
Violet: Okay... now what.
Indigo: Next week you're going to wear those panties on the plane to come see me. Until then, every time you cum, I want you wearing those panties.
Violet: Oh my god, I can't do that, they'll smell.
Indigo: Now you're catching on. I want those panties to smell more like your pussy than your pussy does. You can hand wash them with water only, no soap, and you can only do that a once every other day.
Violet: God, I hope the person next to me on the plane can't smell me.
Indigo: I hope it's a he, and I hope he has a good nose. You'll know by deep breaths that he tries to hide. Remember the movie "Scent of a Woman?"
Violet: (laughs) You are a naughty boy!
Indigo: Have I ever denied it? Play with your clit though the cloth. Are you getting wet?
Violet: I've been soaked since you told me to taste my pussy! (laughs)
Indigo: Good, rub them around that delicious cunt, get them wet. Does it feel good?
Violet: Yessssssss....
Indigo: When you return home from our trip, I'm going to have those panties. When you spread your pussy for me on the web cam I'm going to take those out and have a different kind of virtual reality experience.
Violet: Ooooooo baby, you want to smell me? Want to smell my cunt? Mmmmmm....
Indigo: Of course I do, make them smell like you, get that pussy juice all over the crotch.
Violet: You should see this, I've got them pulled into a rope of cloth, rubbing them side to side against my clit.
Indigo: I will see them. On cam tonight. I'm going to take pictures of you doing that.
Violet: I'm pinching my clit betweeen my thumb and the twisted cloth... oh god, I'm going to cum. Ahaaaaaaaaaa
Indigo: Go ahead and cum for me baby. Pinch your nipple while you do, hard.
Violet: Ahh ahh ahh AHHHH Oh god oh god....
Indigo: Yeah!
Violet: Mmmmmm (giggles)
Indigo: Did you like that?
Violet: It was intense, that was really good.
Indigo: You always cum loudly when that nipple gets pinched.
Violet: Do I? We'll have to be careful in the hotel.
Indigo: Ok, I need to go inside and order... oh crap, I can't go in like this!
Violet: A little obvious babe? (laughs)
Indigo: I'm afraid so... (I adjusted my jeans to hide my hard-on as best I could). By the way, you're not done. I want you to cum the other way, fingers inside tickling your g-spot. As soon as you can stand it...

At this point I felt I could get to the counter and order lunch without showing my bulging front to everyone. Violet of course tortured me in my Bluetooth headset while I tried to order, telling me what she was doing as she warmed up again for a second orgasm. I don't really remember what she said because I was trying hard to act like I didn't have a hot woman in my ear masturbating for my pleasure.

Violet: These knickers really are wet.
Indigo: I bet some of your Facebook and blog friends would love to have those right now... (laughs) you could sign them.
Violet: (laughs) We could sell them on eBay!
Indigo: What an idea, wonder how much they'd go for?
Violet: I'M KIDDING! I wouldn't want to do that!
Indigo: Just think of it, some guy buying them to have a whiff of Violet Moon!
Violet: Stop it!
Indigo: Oh don't worry, I want them for myself. I won't share them... well, I won't share THAT pair.
Violet: Hmmmmm.
Indigo: Ok, cum for me again. You're my lunchtime entertainment. What are you doing?
Violet: Ooooo, you'll like this... I've pushed the crotch up inside of me with two fingers. It feels weird, kind of rough.
Indigo: You were able to get two fingers inside of you? Pushing the cloth in?
Violet: Yeah, not very far, but far enough.
Indigo: Do you know what I'm going to do with those panties? I'm going to tell one of my friends that if he promises not to tell you, that I'll let him smell your pussy. I'll give him the panties and tell him that if you find out you'll kill me, so he can't tell.
Violet: Oh my god...
Indigo: Yeah... and of course I'll tell you right away. When you talk to him you'll know he can smell your pussy whenever he wants, and you'll understand that naughty look in his eye. You'll have that between you, but never be able to discuss it.
Violet: Oh yeah, god that's hot. Ah! ah!
Indigo: Good baby, cum for me again.
Violet: Oh yessss, I'm going to cum... God, I wish it was your cock pushing these inside me.
Indigo: Tonight it can be your rabbit. Cum for me baby, let me have it, ram those fingers in.
Violet: Oh Gawd! Oh oh god yes....
Indigo: Do it!
Violet: AHHHHH! Ahhh! Oh oh...
Indigo: Sounded nice again!
Violet: Mmmmm (giggles) it was...
Indigo: Are the panties wet?
Violet: Soaking.

Love,
Indigo

After-thoughts: I thought to name this post "Getting Violet's Panties in a Bunch" or "Getting Violet's Knickers in a Knot". Those names would have worked, but were a bit more comical than I intended. I'd be interested in other opinions. Oh, and I guess we owe you some pictures. Violet did put on a repeat performance, but Skype was acting up and none of the shots came out very well. We'll try again soon.

Friday, August 15, 2008

Spanking Violet

For Violet and I, the discovery of spanking happened in stages. I always had a very mild spanking fantasy with my ex-wife, but never took it beyond the slight reddening of her ass cheeks while fucking her doggy style. Every once in awhile she'd lie across my lap with a naked bottom and let me have my way with her, but really the whole spanking thing wasn't for her. Some of this was just that she could never really get her head around the idea that pain, as mild as it was, could be part of pleasure.

I don't recall exactly when Violet and I got into our first mild spank session, but I do remember two things: It happened during our first trip together, and it happened after we discovered the pleasures of nipple pinching and biting. At first it was on the highly restrained variety that I sometimes guiltily practiced on my ex, but Violet responded quite differently than my previous partner. Violet, to her continuing astonishment following the discovery of nipple play, loved it.

It went like this: Violet would lie on the bed nude, her legs just partly spread, her ass wiggling in anticipation. I'd massage her ass cheeks, kneading them like dough, then lift a hand and smack one of her checks with a small CRACK!. Violet would gasp, then moan, and I massaged the hurt away... and then did it again CRACK!. Sometimes the spanks fell a little harder CRACK!--which naturally got a more robust massage after and was usually followed by a series of gentler spanks CRACK! CRACK! CRACK!. It didn't last long, after all, I wasn't the kind of man who liked to hurt a lady! I'm the old fashioned kind that likes to make a woman feel like a princess, and to me Violet IS a princess (well, you've seen the pictures, so you know).

Violet already told you about the nipple biting/pinching thing... the spanking discovery was during the same trip. Before that neither of us had any notion of pain for pleasure except for a very little sex play. Both of us are thinking people, and both like to see ourselves as particularly kind. So how does one reconcile the discovery that at least at some level we seem to like physically hurting each other?

What we learned was this: There are several components which make the spanking and the nipple play work for us. The first component is trust. By submitting to the spanking the receiver is telling the spanker that she (or he as the case may be) trusts the spanker with her body, and knows that the spanker won't give more than she can take. The second component is permission. The receiver is telling the spanker that her (or his) body is his to enjoy, that he can have a certain amount of license with her, that for the moment at least, she's willing to share it with him.

The third component is a bit more perplexing. There seems to be some kind of primal communication going on when engaging in spanking or nipple play of the type we do. I imagine (without any real anthropological evidence) that its origins lie in pre-human communication. Violet and I experience an intense sense of connection, of oneness that we simply don't experience other ways. The effect is profound, and leaves us in awe each time we experience it.

By about the third time we traveled together, Violet and I had pretty much gotten over the head trip about hurting each other, at least we had gotten used to the simple fact that it worked for us. The nipple play continued for both of us, but we were ready to go to the next level with spanking. We learned how to warm up to it: start slow, let her (or him) warm up to it, and pay attention to body language--let her tell you when she's ready for more. In a large hotel room in one of the many cities we visited this year, Violet showed me she could enjoy full swing spanking CRACK! interspersed with milder spanking and lots of love and tenderness. Her body language as well as her moans and gasps told me where the line was. If you and your partner try spanking, pay attention to what your partner is telling you! It's ALL about communication!

That was an amazing day, wasn't it Violet?

About 85 percent of the time Violet and I are an ocean apart, but that doesn't stop us from enjoying a little long distance spanking. When we're in the mood, I usually find some pretext to "punish" naughty Violet, and she goes and guiltily gets her hairbrush with the paddle like back, bares her beautiful ass in front of the web cam, and proceeds to redden her ass as per my instruction. She warms up slowly with a few gentle spanks, feeling the familiar warming of her bottom, as I begin instructing her "harder! The other side now! Ok, rub it better for me darling... enough! Redden that ass for me now, I want to see it glow!" All the while Violet teases her clit with her free hand, or slides a couple of fingers into herself for her pleasure and mine, until she gets to the point that despite my warnings of harder spanks, she pauses and very loudly cums wildly. It usually doesn't take but a second or two before I do the same.

Monday, August 11, 2008

Violet is a popular girl!

I LOVE Facebook!

Every time I log in the Instant Messages start flying in, hehe, It’s wonderful, I love being in demand! But I am only one woman with one pair of hands and a temperamental laptop, so sometimes I find it hard to answer everyone and I can be Very cheeky at times! Here’s an example of the questions I answer every day:

POP! Hi Sexy
Violet answers: Hi Babe
POP! Do you have MSN/ Yahoo?
Violet: Yes of course I do
POP! Do you want to watch a dick show?
Violet: I am! I’m watching all of you dicks on here, typing the same stupid lines to me!
Pop! So you going to add me to your MSN ? So I can give you a show?
Violet: Dear fucking moron, Do you know how many requests I get EVERY FUCKING DAY! If I added everyone who asked I'd never be able to have a single conversation with anyone.
POP! So you gonna add me????


I love answering questions, especially naughty ones, and chatting to everyone, so I have decided to start a Dear Violet section in my bog, and I will post the best, most interesting things on here. If you would like me to answer your questions, email me on: naughty.girl.violet@gmail.com

I can't wait to hear from you

Love Violet
xxxx

Saturday, August 9, 2008

Nipple Biting

Me? BDSM? OMG! You have to be joking, how could anyone enjoy being hurt? Or hurting someone?

Nobody who really loves anyone could do that!

How wrong was I! One afternoon in a particularly naughty mood Indigo and I were playing, he was sucking on my nipples holding my breasts together so he could get both nipples in his mouth at once, and I started writhing about, and from nowhere my voice said, ‘suck harder, please!’ but it wasn’t enough, my pussy was responding my legs spreading open, I could feel moistness flowing between my legs, all because he was sucking harder, and again I cried’ more, please, suck them harder!’ Indigo looked into my eyes, saw the desire there, felt me rubbing my thighs together, and I looked deep in his eyes, and begged, ‘Bite me, please, please!’ He did, slowly at first, watching me, seeing the strange mixture of pain and pleasure, and trust, I kept begging him , ‘More, please, more’, screaming loudly, 'OMG, Fuck, More, please BITE me!’ and eventually I screamed ‘Fuck me.’ my hand grabbing his cock and forcing it into my waiting, wet pussy. I came almost as soon as he entered me, I was so turned on. Never before had I experienced this, pleasure, this submission to anyone, and OMG it was so HOT! Both of us lay in a daze afterward, both shocked at what had happened, never had we expected to go down this path. And both wanting more, much, much more.

From then on nipple pinching and biting became our thing, anywhere, anytime we would do it to each other, always getting so wet and HOT from it. We can do it anywhere now, just look like we are having a cuddle but in reality sneaking in a secret pinch, looking deep into each others eyes, seeing the pleasure, the FUCK me NOW look. And this was just the tip of the iceberg, we had discovered that pain was an amazing aphrodisiac and we were starting our amazing journey into a land unknown….

Love,
Violet

Thursday, August 7, 2008

Second life changed my real life!


After reading a interested article about http://secondlife.com/, and being very bored in my real life, I decided to go online and have a look. I logged on to the site and created a avatar. Within 30 min my life’s path had been changed forever. I had done the download and my Second life character was standing on screen. I didn’t know what I was doing there, didn’t know how to move , where to go or how to even talk! Up until now I had never really been interested in computer games, maybe solitaire now and then or backgammon, but nothing like this.

Next thing I knew I am bumping into this amazing looking character, I mean drop dead gorgeous! And he starts ‘chatting ‘ to me! I explained my situation and he was amazingly sweet, gave me a few Linden Dollars {the currency you use in second life to buy things} and took me shopping! I was hooked, stayed up all night working on my character, and getting to know Simon*. Every available moment I’d log in and be in my second life me! I was Sexy, dressed in designer clothes, my hair always looked great, had no commitments, and was whatever I wanted to be! I was living the life everyone dreams off. In real life I looked like hell, was exhausted, but buzzing, and very much in love. Simon was amazing, listened to all my problems, brought me gifts, took me dancing, and was so gorgeous, what more could a middle aged woman ask for?

Simon and I had super hot cyber sex, I had no inhibitions on here, my ass was perfect, no blemish on my body, no ‘wobbly’ bits, and I was a wild girl, doing all the things I always wanted to sexually with Simon, begging him to lick my clit for hours, let my give him a blow job in a restaurant, fuck me anywhere, anytime, and demand exactly what I wanted!
In my real life I had been repressed sexually, my then husband and I had ‘silent’ sex, same position for ever, and if we had it once a month it was a lot. But here I was having wicked sex with a man not once a night but often 2 or more times.

Second life is a virtual reality world where everything is built by the citizens of that world. Naturally a large portion of it is devoted to sex. You can build or buy a house with a dance pole in your living room. Click on the dance pole and instantly your a pole dance performing exotic acts for any and all visitors to watch. You can take off your cloths and hope into bed with your lover or lovers, and be licking her clit while he's fucking your ass.

Anyway, Simon and I got closer and closer, he even introduced me to his real life wife who was also on Second life . Then he started murmuring about taking our relationship to ‘the next level’ and meeting in real life. I was so infatuated with him I couldn’t wait! So we decided to exchange photo’s , and... fizzle. Oh well, sometimes the illusion is better than the reality.

I created another secret Avatar {my 3rd life?}, I was now cheating on my real life husband, and my sl partner! But that’s sl for you, wild, uninhibited , and move on quick if you’re not happy.

Now I knew how the game worked I was a expert. I had to just teleport to a dance floor and within minutes I was dancing with a handsome man, dressed up like a princess, while I sat at home in my nighty with a mug of coffee! I wasn’t me anymore, I was Sara, naughty, sexy, bright heartbreaker Sara! I was trying everything, demanding sex in every way I had ever imagined, and even exploring my bi-curious side. Men and women went wild for me, I could have them cumming within minutes and begging for more.

I led a very naughty second life. I was the one in control, I slid my hand in their trousers while we were dancing and played with their cocks, or took off their knickers and licked their cunts. I'd take them home to my place and fuck them silly, I lap danced for them, and if they were particularly good I let them fuck my ass (men) or fist me (women). The more turned on they got the hotter I got , the more I turned it up, shouting for them to ram there hard cock in my tight pussy, to fuck me like no other woman, and I would scream there name as I brought myself to a raging orgasm in real life, too. I was a sex god, the more outrageous I was the more they loved it, and I did too. I brought myself a rampant rabbit
http://www.annsummers.com and God I was having the best fucking time ever!

I met amazing people on Second life, quickly learned what attracted me, it definitely was brains more then brawn. I had long term affairs, more than 3 weeks in the cyber world, with all types of professional people. I always say when you meet in real life you judge the looks first then get to know the person, but in Second life you {once you start seen past the pixels}, get to know the inner person then the outer.

Slowly things stated to dull a little bit and I got into ‘building’ on Second life , houses, and furniture, and one day on a mission to find some doors, proudly wearing my owner tag to show everyone I owned property in Second life , a guy started badgering me about being the owner of the shop we were in, he knew very well I wasn’t but he also recognised I was a professional in sl and the normal, “you look great“, wouldn’t work as a pick up line.
Within a day we were spending the night together just talking. We hit it off straight away, and then I tried to seduce him to bed, slowly undoing his fly and releasing his cock into my hand, bringing it to my mouth…..he stopped me, ‘No, you lie back and enjoy...’ as he slowly licked and kissed his way down my body to my waiting pussy...

My fantasy life was about to become my real life. I had met Indigo!

Love Violet

Sunday, August 3, 2008

Technology for Online and Long Distance Lovers

Violet mentioned how important communication is to a long-distance online relationship. I thought I'd write today about some of the technology you can use to facilitate that.

If you're not familiar with Skype, then today's your (and your lover's) lucky day. Skype delivers impressive quality video and audio for free to if you're talking to other Skype users. If you need to make a call to a telephone Skype is generally much cheaper than the phone company.

Violet and I have a love-hate relationship with Skype. I can't tell you how many times we've been going at it when suddenly Skype decided it didn't want to work. The camera would be focused on Violet's pussy, her hips bucking against her fingers--obviously about to cum--and then arrrggggghhhh! Nothing kills the moment like a call that won't stay connected. I must say however, that something has changed with Skype and it is MUCH better now than it used to be.

You'll need a decent headset and microphone--I strongly recommend USB headsets with the microphone built in. I've brought several from Plantronics and generally like them. Violet prefers wireless USB headsets so she can chat while she roams around the house.

You'll also need a decent web cam. It's common for laptops to come with one built in, but if not you can get good one's from Logitech or Microsoft. If you need to buy one for your Mac make sure you get one supported by the Macam driver.

Violet and I both have Skype on our cell phones as well. Since we talk constantly and live on different continents, talking on the phone can be quite expensive. Since Violet's in the UK, she can buy an official Skype phone that works through the normal phone system. She just has to punch in a code to access a Skype line.

You can't get the type of phone that Violet has in the US, but can get a phone through Skype that will use a wireless internet connection. This is fine if you're sitting in a coffee shop, but not if you're picking out some new toys at the local adult shop and want to get your lover's opinion on which type of nipple clamps to buy. Instead, I have a Windows Mobile phone from AT&T (I bought the Tilt model) and downloaded Skype onto it.

There are other online video telephony products and Violet and I tried several, for example PalTalk, SightSpeed. Many don't work on the Mac, and none of them that Violet and I tried just don't measure up to Skype. It is nice though to have another choice for those frustrating times when you need some face time (or perhaps some ass time) and Skype isn't cooperating. For those times we use Microsoft's Live Messenger, although you can't get streaming video on the Mac version.

Finally, here are a few items of that I hope will be available soon. (If you're a manufacturer, let us know and we'll be willing to beta test for you!)
  • A USB vibrator that can be controlled remotely. I should be able to control vibration speed, head rotation, and possibly in and out motion. Maybe something Violet can sit on--with a web cam built in with a strategic viewing position!
  • Web cam with multiple independent lenses so that I can see different views of Violet at the same time!
  • Nipple clamps that can be remotely tightened for when Violet is a naughty girl... which is always.
  • I hear surgeons can do operations remotely using robotic arms. When can I get one with a paddle attachment for when Violet is PARTICULARLY bad.... which again is always.
If you know of other technology that we should know about, let us know about please leave a comment. Perhaps we'll give it a try and let you know what we think.

Love,
Indigo