I've been a bad girl...

Hi babe, I've been a very naughty girl!

What have you done this time Vi?

I love you, Indigo.

Just tell me Violet.

Well......I'm feeling horny....

OK, and?

I was on facebook chatting to this lovely girl, and ummm I kind of got into her and had mindblowing cyber sex with her!

You are a bad girl, Violet!

I know babe, but I just couldn't help myself.....

OK as long as you tell me everything!

Of course babe, With her permission I copied it all and have it written down for you:


Hottie I think ur relationship is so cool
how open u guys r
Violet: Yes we are very open, but being apart can be very hard to, but we're together in 6 days again so goodie!
Hottie You’re going to him?
Violet: Yes, to …..
Hottie
oh...that's not far from me
Violet: oooo want to come join us?
hehe
Hottie wish I could
I am sure it would be LOTS of fun
hehe
Violet: we are going to paradise want to go to paradise babe???? lol
Hottie I would luv 2
Violet: have you ever done a 3some?
Hottie
many years ago...tried a male/male/female
but they weren't really up 2 the challenge
lol
Violet: I haven't...yet but i am so attracted to women
Hottie
so am I
and I want 2 try a female/female/male
Violet: yeah that’s what I want me licking your pussy while Indigo fucks me! hehe
Hottie mmmm
Violet: Did you do double penetration? I would love to try that!
Hottie
No we never even got that far
Violet: I think women are better we touch and cuddle even if not fucking!
Hottie
I agree
Violet: the main thing Indigo and I feel is it need to be with someone who knows we will never leave each other for the other person, and that it no strings attached , fun I just like women’s bodies, soft , smell nice, cuddly and so does indigo, hehe loves curves so what’s your ffm fantasy? what would you like to be doing?
Hottie
I would like 2 b doing it doggy....while I lick her pussy
Violet: hehe now we both like that, what will we do! hehe might need a dildo
Hottie
that works 4 me too
Violet: lol, I like the idea of indigo and I sharing your pussy together licking you and kissing each other, sharing pussy!
Hottie
mmmm
I like that idea
spread my legs wide
Violet: Hands stretching up and playing with your nipples
Hottie
So both of u can get between them
Violet: maybe sliding 2 off our linked fingers in you
Hottie
u pulling on my nipple ring
Violet: mmmm indigo does this amazing method with his fingers in my pussy, massaging my g-spot, I would love to do it for you too , OMG fucking wild
Hottie
Yes I’d like it
Violet: Indigo is an amazing lover, honey, will make me come about 6 times at least a day, loves pussy , will spend all day licking and playing with it
Hottie
Now I am the one jealous of u
Violet: Oh he'll do it for you too, and I like playing too, love pleasing my partner/s lol I would love to watch you react to what I like, a bit of sucking, nipping fingering
Hottie ooohhh, Violet u r turning me on
Violet: mmm do you like it gentle or a bit rough? I love my breast to be rough handled! oh am I babe? do me a favour?
Hottie what?
Violet: Slide one finger in your pussy and taste it for me
Hottie ohhhh...ok
Violet: Yummy?
Hottie I luv the taste of my pussy
ohhhhh
Its wet
Violet: Oh god now I'm horny
Hottie and warm
Violet: mmmm
Hottie feels so good
Violet: Put you legs up and start playing with your clit, holding it open for my mouth
Hottie Ok
Violet: Watch indigos face while he fucks me, getting turned on by your pussy but using mine to fuck My tongue flicking over your clit, one finger sliding in you
Hottie I can feel it
oohhhh
Violet: Wiggling about until i find the sensitive g-spot that makes you twitch when i touch it
Hottie that’s the spot
Violet: sucking hard on your clit, sliding one more finger in you my other hand exploring your asshole
Hottie ohhh Vi
Violet: OMG I want to taste pussy sooooooo much
Hottie Be gentle with my asshole
never used it b4
it is so sweet tasting
Violet: oh I will babe, just tickle the outside
Hottie yaaaa
Violet: My fingers sliding in and our you hooking them against your g-spot , while I suck hard on your clit
Hottie oooohhhhhhhh
Violet: 'Indigo, grab he tits. babe
Hottie
I want 2 cum in your mouth
Violet: oh god I love that I want to suck you clit and pussy until you scream and buck beneath me
Hottie Indigo biting my nipple
Violet: Make you wild, try everything I love on you mmm
Hottie Vi u know exactly what I like
Violet: Oh god babe, i think we would have an amazing time
Hottie my pussy is so wet
Violet: oh god fuck yourself babe I really want to give you pleasure
Hottie I am
Violet: You have great tits I want to feast on those
Hottie ty
oooohhhhhhhh
Violet: ooo Indigo come help me lets explore every inch of her pussy together
Hottie starting 2 shake
Violet: my tongue and fingers in you with his
Hottie yaaaaaaaa
Violet: our tongues fighting over position between your legs maybe licking your asshole
Hottie while I play with my tits Violet: my face covered in the smell and taste of you
Hottie oh Vi
Violet: mmm one of my hands reaching up to pinch your nipple, I want you to lie back and just enjoy
Hottie I’m going 2 cum 4 u
Violet: Yes babe, fuck yourself
Hottie yaaaa
Violet: pinch your clit between your fingers think of that taste seeping into my mouth
Hottie ooohhhhhhhhhhhhhh
viiiiiiii
Violet: god I want you!
Hottie wow
that was good
Violet: thank you!
Hottie
2 bad u cant help me lick my fingers clean
Violet: you are hot stuff babe hehe do it for me
Hottie
ty
ok
Violet: that was really good, I would love that in rl
Hottie me too
Violet: ok.....that is REALLY hot!!!!!!!!!!!
Hottie ohh...I would luv
that
I want it right now
Violet:
mmm it is amazing
Hottie
I am so turned on
Violet: I cumm with Indigo’s tongue on my clit and then a few min after he does that and I cumm again
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Indigo: Violet you are a bad girl! I’m going to have to punish you…..
Violet: mmmmmmmm

News from Violet and Indigo

We probably won't be blogging much this week because we're enjoying some rare time physically together. Violet is snoozing soundly in bed next to me as I write this, and I couldn't be happier (unless of course she were awake and fucking my brains out--jet lag sucks!) Oh well... here, I'll cop a feel of her sexy ass for all of you. Tomorrow I'll take some pictures for the blog.

Last night the sex was amazing, which tends to happen after too very horny lovers see each other after six weeks. Toward the end of our play we discovered something a new. We were both pretty fucked out, but I started playing with Violet's clit in an unusual way. I held the hood of her button between my thumb and middle finger, gently pinching. As I did I could feel her clit under the covering suddenly slip. I relaxed my fingers, and then did it again. It was really just intended as intimate touching as we fell asleep, but soon Violet was telling me it felt amazing, but that she was too tired to cum. After awhile I introduced my index finger to touch the tip of her clitoris as it slipped (always like to wait a bit for direct stimulation), and that drove Violet wild. Violet held off cumming for quite awhile (I was impressed) but when she came, she came big. I don't think the guy in the next hotel room got any sleep.

On the down side, Violet wasn't too happy today to find out that her account on Facebook had been deleted. This is the second time. Anyone care to explain that? Personally I think it's someone bullying her, but we'll never know. Facebook doesn't even bother to tell you what the problem is or give you a way of appealing their decision. All her friends, at least the ones that didn't join "Friends of HotterChat" are gone.

That's all for now. Both of us have a post in the works so it's possible you'll see something before our trip is through, but don't hold your breath!

Love,
Indigo (And Violet, in her dreams)

Soaking

I called Violet at lunch time yesterday. The conversation went something like this:

Indigo: Hi honey, what are you doing right now?
Violet: Just lying on the bed looking at Facebook.
Indigo: I'm driving to the sub shop to get a sandwich for lunch. Listen, I need to you check something for me.
Violet: Okay, what?
Indigo: Slide a finger into your pussy and tell me if you taste yummy.
Violet: Oh god.... Okay.... mmmm yes, yummy.
Indigo: Mmmmm I knew it, just thought I ought to check.
Violet: Actually, it tastes particularly good for some reason, oh my god...
Indigo: I'm sure it does baby...
Violet: No, I mean it, sweet tasting, oh my god, I wonder why? Mmmmmm!
Indigo: (laughs) Going back for more?
Violet: Yeah!
Indigo: I wish I could have some. Listen, I have an idea. Go get a pair of panties. One you won't mind parting with.
Violet: Why?
Indigo: When you see me next week, I want you to bring me a present. It's the only thing I want from you.
Violet: All my knickers are nice, you know that. What do you want me to do?
Indigo: Do you have them yet?
Violet: I'm getting them.
Indigo: Take your clothes off.
Violet: Okay.
Indigo: Put on the panties.
Violet: Okay... now what.
Indigo: Next week you're going to wear those panties on the plane to come see me. Until then, every time you cum, I want you wearing those panties.
Violet: Oh my god, I can't do that, they'll smell.
Indigo: Now you're catching on. I want those panties to smell more like your pussy than your pussy does. You can hand wash them with water only, no soap, and you can only do that a once every other day.
Violet: God, I hope the person next to me on the plane can't smell me.
Indigo: I hope it's a he, and I hope he has a good nose. You'll know by deep breaths that he tries to hide. Remember the movie "Scent of a Woman?"
Violet: (laughs) You are a naughty boy!
Indigo: Have I ever denied it? Play with your clit though the cloth. Are you getting wet?
Violet: I've been soaked since you told me to taste my pussy! (laughs)
Indigo: Good, rub them around that delicious cunt, get them wet. Does it feel good?
Violet: Yessssssss....
Indigo: When you return home from our trip, I'm going to have those panties. When you spread your pussy for me on the web cam I'm going to take those out and have a different kind of virtual reality experience.
Violet: Ooooooo baby, you want to smell me? Want to smell my cunt? Mmmmmm....
Indigo: Of course I do, make them smell like you, get that pussy juice all over the crotch.
Violet: You should see this, I've got them pulled into a rope of cloth, rubbing them side to side against my clit.
Indigo: I will see them. On cam tonight. I'm going to take pictures of you doing that.
Violet: I'm pinching my clit betweeen my thumb and the twisted cloth... oh god, I'm going to cum. Ahaaaaaaaaaa
Indigo: Go ahead and cum for me baby. Pinch your nipple while you do, hard.
Violet: Ahh ahh ahh AHHHH Oh god oh god....
Indigo: Yeah!
Violet: Mmmmmm (giggles)
Indigo: Did you like that?
Violet: It was intense, that was really good.
Indigo: You always cum loudly when that nipple gets pinched.
Violet: Do I? We'll have to be careful in the hotel.
Indigo: Ok, I need to go inside and order... oh crap, I can't go in like this!
Violet: A little obvious babe? (laughs)
Indigo: I'm afraid so... (I adjusted my jeans to hide my hard-on as best I could). By the way, you're not done. I want you to cum the other way, fingers inside tickling your g-spot. As soon as you can stand it...

At this point I felt I could get to the counter and order lunch without showing my bulging front to everyone. Violet of course tortured me in my Bluetooth headset while I tried to order, telling me what she was doing as she warmed up again for a second orgasm. I don't really remember what she said because I was trying hard to act like I didn't have a hot woman in my ear masturbating for my pleasure.

Violet: These knickers really are wet.
Indigo: I bet some of your Facebook and blog friends would love to have those right now... (laughs) you could sign them.
Violet: (laughs) We could sell them on eBay!
Indigo: What an idea, wonder how much they'd go for?
Violet: I'M KIDDING! I wouldn't want to do that!
Indigo: Just think of it, some guy buying them to have a whiff of Violet Moon!
Violet: Stop it!
Indigo: Oh don't worry, I want them for myself. I won't share them... well, I won't share THAT pair.
Violet: Hmmmmm.
Indigo: Ok, cum for me again. You're my lunchtime entertainment. What are you doing?
Violet: Ooooo, you'll like this... I've pushed the crotch up inside of me with two fingers. It feels weird, kind of rough.
Indigo: You were able to get two fingers inside of you? Pushing the cloth in?
Violet: Yeah, not very far, but far enough.
Indigo: Do you know what I'm going to do with those panties? I'm going to tell one of my friends that if he promises not to tell you, that I'll let him smell your pussy. I'll give him the panties and tell him that if you find out you'll kill me, so he can't tell.
Violet: Oh my god...
Indigo: Yeah... and of course I'll tell you right away. When you talk to him you'll know he can smell your pussy whenever he wants, and you'll understand that naughty look in his eye. You'll have that between you, but never be able to discuss it.
Violet: Oh yeah, god that's hot. Ah! ah!
Indigo: Good baby, cum for me again.
Violet: Oh yessss, I'm going to cum... God, I wish it was your cock pushing these inside me.
Indigo: Tonight it can be your rabbit. Cum for me baby, let me have it, ram those fingers in.
Violet: Oh Gawd! Oh oh god yes....
Indigo: Do it!
Violet: AHHHHH! Ahhh! Oh oh...
Indigo: Sounded nice again!
Violet: Mmmmm (giggles) it was...
Indigo: Are the panties wet?
Violet: Soaking.

Love,
Indigo

After-thoughts: I thought to name this post "Getting Violet's Panties in a Bunch" or "Getting Violet's Knickers in a Knot". Those names would have worked, but were a bit more comical than I intended. I'd be interested in other opinions. Oh, and I guess we owe you some pictures. Violet did put on a repeat performance, but Skype was acting up and none of the shots came out very well. We'll try again soon.

Spanking Violet

For Violet and I, the discovery of spanking happened in stages. I always had a very mild spanking fantasy with my ex-wife, but never took it beyond the slight reddening of her ass cheeks while fucking her doggy style. Every once in awhile she'd lie across my lap with a naked bottom and let me have my way with her, but really the whole spanking thing wasn't for her. Some of this was just that she could never really get her head around the idea that pain, as mild as it was, could be part of pleasure.

I don't recall exactly when Violet and I got into our first mild spank session, but I do remember two things: It happened during our first trip together, and it happened after we discovered the pleasures of nipple pinching and biting. At first it was on the highly restrained variety that I sometimes guiltily practiced on my ex, but Violet responded quite differently than my previous partner. Violet, to her continuing astonishment following the discovery of nipple play, loved it.

It went like this: Violet would lie on the bed nude, her legs just partly spread, her ass wiggling in anticipation. I'd massage her ass cheeks, kneading them like dough, then lift a hand and smack one of her checks with a small CRACK!. Violet would gasp, then moan, and I massaged the hurt away... and then did it again CRACK!. Sometimes the spanks fell a little harder CRACK!--which naturally got a more robust massage after and was usually followed by a series of gentler spanks CRACK! CRACK! CRACK!. It didn't last long, after all, I wasn't the kind of man who liked to hurt a lady! I'm the old fashioned kind that likes to make a woman feel like a princess, and to me Violet IS a princess (well, you've seen the pictures, so you know).

Violet already told you about the nipple biting/pinching thing... the spanking discovery was during the same trip. Before that neither of us had any notion of pain for pleasure except for a very little sex play. Both of us are thinking people, and both like to see ourselves as particularly kind. So how does one reconcile the discovery that at least at some level we seem to like physically hurting each other?

What we learned was this: There are several components which make the spanking and the nipple play work for us. The first component is trust. By submitting to the spanking the receiver is telling the spanker that she (or he as the case may be) trusts the spanker with her body, and knows that the spanker won't give more than she can take. The second component is permission. The receiver is telling the spanker that her (or his) body is his to enjoy, that he can have a certain amount of license with her, that for the moment at least, she's willing to share it with him.

The third component is a bit more perplexing. There seems to be some kind of primal communication going on when engaging in spanking or nipple play of the type we do. I imagine (without any real anthropological evidence) that its origins lie in pre-human communication. Violet and I experience an intense sense of connection, of oneness that we simply don't experience other ways. The effect is profound, and leaves us in awe each time we experience it.

By about the third time we traveled together, Violet and I had pretty much gotten over the head trip about hurting each other, at least we had gotten used to the simple fact that it worked for us. The nipple play continued for both of us, but we were ready to go to the next level with spanking. We learned how to warm up to it: start slow, let her (or him) warm up to it, and pay attention to body language--let her tell you when she's ready for more. In a large hotel room in one of the many cities we visited this year, Violet showed me she could enjoy full swing spanking CRACK! interspersed with milder spanking and lots of love and tenderness. Her body language as well as her moans and gasps told me where the line was. If you and your partner try spanking, pay attention to what your partner is telling you! It's ALL about communication!

That was an amazing day, wasn't it Violet?

About 85 percent of the time Violet and I are an ocean apart, but that doesn't stop us from enjoying a little long distance spanking. When we're in the mood, I usually find some pretext to "punish" naughty Violet, and she goes and guiltily gets her hairbrush with the paddle like back, bares her beautiful ass in front of the web cam, and proceeds to redden her ass as per my instruction. She warms up slowly with a few gentle spanks, feeling the familiar warming of her bottom, as I begin instructing her "harder! The other side now! Ok, rub it better for me darling... enough! Redden that ass for me now, I want to see it glow!" All the while Violet teases her clit with her free hand, or slides a couple of fingers into herself for her pleasure and mine, until she gets to the point that despite my warnings of harder spanks, she pauses and very loudly cums wildly. It usually doesn't take but a second or two before I do the same.

Violet is a popular girl!

I LOVE Facebook!

Every time I log in the Instant Messages start flying in, hehe, It’s wonderful, I love being in demand! But I am only one woman with one pair of hands and a temperamental laptop, so sometimes I find it hard to answer everyone and I can be Very cheeky at times! Here’s an example of the questions I answer every day:

POP! Hi Sexy
Violet answers: Hi Babe
POP! Do you have MSN/ Yahoo?
Violet: Yes of course I do
POP! Do you want to watch a dick show?
Violet: I am! I’m watching all of you dicks on here, typing the same stupid lines to me!
Pop! So you going to add me to your MSN ? So I can give you a show?
Violet: Dear fucking moron, Do you know how many requests I get EVERY FUCKING DAY! If I added everyone who asked I'd never be able to have a single conversation with anyone.
POP! So you gonna add me????

I love answering questions, especially naughty ones, and chatting to everyone, so I have decided to start a Dear Violet section in my bog, and I will post the best, most interesting things on here. If you would like me to answer your questions, email me on: naughty.girl.violet@gmail.com

I can't wait to hear from you

Love Violet
xxxx

Nipple Biting

Me? BDSM? OMG! You have to be joking, how could anyone enjoy being hurt? Or hurting someone?

Nobody who really loves anyone could do that!

How wrong was I! One afternoon in a particularly naughty mood Indigo and I were playing, he was sucking on my nipples holding my breasts together so he could get both nipples in his mouth at once, and I started writhing about, and from nowhere my voice said, ‘suck harder, please!’ but it wasn’t enough, my pussy was responding my legs spreading open, I could feel moistness flowing between my legs, all because he was sucking harder, and again I cried’ more, please, suck them harder!’ Indigo looked into my eyes, saw the desire there, felt me rubbing my thighs together, and I looked deep in his eyes, and begged, ‘Bite me, please, please!’ He did, slowly at first, watching me, seeing the strange mixture of pain and pleasure, and trust, I kept begging him , ‘More, please, more’, screaming loudly, 'OMG, Fuck, More, please BITE me!’ and eventually I screamed ‘Fuck me.’ my hand grabbing his cock and forcing it into my waiting, wet pussy. I came almost as soon as he entered me, I was so turned on. Never before had I experienced this, pleasure, this submission to anyone, and OMG it was so HOT! Both of us lay in a daze afterward, both shocked at what had happened, never had we expected to go down this path. And both wanting more, much, much more.

From then on nipple pinching and biting became our thing, anywhere, anytime we would do it to each other, always getting so wet and HOT from it. We can do it anywhere now, just look like we are having a cuddle but in reality sneaking in a secret pinch, looking deep into each others eyes, seeing the pleasure, the FUCK me NOW look. And this was just the tip of the iceberg, we had discovered that pain was an amazing aphrodisiac and we were starting our amazing journey into a land unknown….

Love,
Violet

Second life changed my real life!

After reading a interested article about http://secondlife.com/, and being very bored in my real life, I decided to go online and have a look. I logged on to the site and created a avatar. Within 30 min my life’s path had been changed forever. I had done the download and my Second life character was standing on screen. I didn’t know what I was doing there, didn’t know how to move , where to go or how to even talk! Up until now I had never really been interested in computer games, maybe solitaire now and then or backgammon, but nothing like this.

Next thing I knew I am bumping into this amazing looking character, I mean drop dead gorgeous! And he starts ‘chatting ‘ to me! I explained my situation and he was amazingly sweet, gave me a few Linden Dollars {the currency you use in second life to buy things} and took me shopping! I was hooked, stayed up all night working on my character, and getting to know Simon*. Every available moment I’d log in and be in my second life me! I was Sexy, dressed in designer clothes, my hair always looked great, had no commitments, and was whatever I wanted to be! I was living the life everyone dreams off. In real life I looked like hell, was exhausted, but buzzing, and very much in love. Simon was amazing, listened to all my problems, brought me gifts, took me dancing, and was so gorgeous, what more could a middle aged woman ask for?

Simon and I had super hot cyber sex, I had no inhibitions on here, my ass was perfect, no blemish on my body, no ‘wobbly’ bits, and I was a wild girl, doing all the things I always wanted to sexually with Simon, begging him to lick my clit for hours, let my give him a blow job in a restaurant, fuck me anywhere, anytime, and demand exactly what I wanted!
In my real life I had been repressed sexually, my then husband and I had ‘silent’ sex, same position for ever, and if we had it once a month it was a lot. But here I was having wicked sex with a man not once a night but often 2 or more times.

Second life is a virtual reality world where everything is built by the citizens of that world. Naturally a large portion of it is devoted to sex. You can build or buy a house with a dance pole in your living room. Click on the dance pole and instantly your a pole dance performing exotic acts for any and all visitors to watch. You can take off your cloths and hope into bed with your lover or lovers, and be licking her clit while he's fucking your ass.

Anyway, Simon and I got closer and closer, he even introduced me to his real life wife who was also on Second life . Then he started murmuring about taking our relationship to ‘the next level’ and meeting in real life. I was so infatuated with him I couldn’t wait! So we decided to exchange photo’s , and... fizzle. Oh well, sometimes the illusion is better than the reality.

I created another secret Avatar {my 3rd life?}, I was now cheating on my real life husband, and my sl partner! But that’s sl for you, wild, uninhibited , and move on quick if you’re not happy.

Now I knew how the game worked I was a expert. I had to just teleport to a dance floor and within minutes I was dancing with a handsome man, dressed up like a princess, while I sat at home in my nighty with a mug of coffee! I wasn’t me anymore, I was Sara, naughty, sexy, bright heartbreaker Sara! I was trying everything, demanding sex in every way I had ever imagined, and even exploring my bi-curious side. Men and women went wild for me, I could have them cumming within minutes and begging for more.

I led a very naughty second life. I was the one in control, I slid my hand in their trousers while we were dancing and played with their cocks, or took off their knickers and licked their cunts. I'd take them home to my place and fuck them silly, I lap danced for them, and if they were particularly good I let them fuck my ass (men) or fist me (women). The more turned on they got the hotter I got , the more I turned it up, shouting for them to ram there hard cock in my tight pussy, to fuck me like no other woman, and I would scream there name as I brought myself to a raging orgasm in real life, too. I was a sex god, the more outrageous I was the more they loved it, and I did too. I brought myself a rampant rabbit http://www.annsummers.com and God I was having the best fucking time ever!

I met amazing people on Second life, quickly learned what attracted me, it definitely was brains more then brawn. I had long term affairs, more than 3 weeks in the cyber world, with all types of professional people. I always say when you meet in real life you judge the looks first then get to know the person, but in Second life you {once you start seen past the pixels}, get to know the inner person then the outer.

Slowly things stated to dull a little bit and I got into ‘building’ on Second life , houses, and furniture, and one day on a mission to find some doors, proudly wearing my owner tag to show everyone I owned property in Second life , a guy started badgering me about being the owner of the shop we were in, he knew very well I wasn’t but he also recognised I was a professional in sl and the normal, “you look great“, wouldn’t work as a pick up line.
Within a day we were spending the night together just talking. We hit it off straight away, and then I tried to seduce him to bed, slowly undoing his fly and releasing his cock into my hand, bringing it to my mouth…..he stopped me, ‘No, you lie back and enjoy...’ as he slowly licked and kissed his way down my body to my waiting pussy...

My fantasy life was about to become my real life. I had met Indigo!

Love Violet

Technology for Online and Long Distance Lovers

Violet mentioned how important communication is to a long-distance online relationship. I thought I'd write today about some of the technology you can use to facilitate that.

If you're not familiar with Skype, then today's your (and your lover's) lucky day. Skype delivers impressive quality video and audio for free to if you're talking to other Skype users. If you need to make a call to a telephone Skype is generally much cheaper than the phone company.

Violet and I have a love-hate relationship with Skype. I can't tell you how many times we've been going at it when suddenly Skype decided it didn't want to work. The camera would be focused on Violet's pussy, her hips bucking against her fingers--obviously about to cum--and then arrrggggghhhh! Nothing kills the moment like a call that won't stay connected. I must say however, that something has changed with Skype and it is MUCH better now than it used to be.

You'll need a decent headset and microphone--I strongly recommend USB headsets with the microphone built in. I've brought several from Plantronics and generally like them. Violet prefers wireless USB headsets so she can chat while she roams around the house.

You'll also need a decent web cam. It's common for laptops to come with one built in, but if not you can get good one's from Logitech or Microsoft. If you need to buy one for your Mac make sure you get one supported by the Macam driver.

Violet and I both have Skype on our cell phones as well. Since we talk constantly and live on different continents, talking on the phone can be quite expensive. Since Violet's in the UK, she can buy an official Skype phone that works through the normal phone system. She just has to punch in a code to access a Skype line.

You can't get the type of phone that Violet has in the US, but can get a phone through Skype that will use a wireless internet connection. This is fine if you're sitting in a coffee shop, but not if you're picking out some new toys at the local adult shop and want to get your lover's opinion on which type of nipple clamps to buy. Instead, I have a Windows Mobile phone from AT&T (I bought the Tilt model) and downloaded Skype onto it.

There are other online video telephony products and Violet and I tried several, for example PalTalk, SightSpeed. Many don't work on the Mac, and none of them that Violet and I tried just don't measure up to Skype. It is nice though to have another choice for those frustrating times when you need some face time (or perhaps some ass time) and Skype isn't cooperating. For those times we use Microsoft's Live Messenger, although you can't get streaming video on the Mac version.

Finally, here are a few items of that I hope will be available soon. (If you're a manufacturer, let us know and we'll be willing to beta test for you!)

• A USB vibrator that can be controlled remotely. I should be able to control vibration speed, head rotation, and possibly in and out motion. Maybe something Violet can sit on--with a web cam built in with a strategic viewing position!
• Web cam with multiple independent lenses so that I can see different views of Violet at the same time!
• Nipple clamps that can be remotely tightened for when Violet is a naughty girl... which is always.
• I hear surgeons can do operations remotely using robotic arms. When can I get one with a paddle attachment for when Violet is PARTICULARLY bad.... which again is always.

If you know of other technology that we should know about, let us know about please leave a comment. Perhaps we'll give it a try and let you know what we think.

Love,
Indigo

My Remote Bedside Manner

Poor Violet was recently in the hospital. As usual she wasn't allowed to use her phone to talk, but she left it on anyway so I could text her. She couldn't reply because the nurses could hear her, although she did sneak a few message back to me. How could I resist a captive audience? I sent these messages from Skype, which is nice because I have them to post here.

• 9:15am (Indigo) You know what I really want to do with you? I want to hire a small plane with a good looking pilot. I'll sit in the back seat with you...


• 9:16am (Indigo) Nibbling on your ear as you look out the window.... sliding my hand up your blouse and undoing your bra... kissing your neck...


• 9:20am (Indigo) Exposing your breasts... the poor pilot turns his head and gasps when he sees how amazing they are... I ask if he minds if we take our seat belts off.


• 9:22am (Indigo) He doesn't mind so I take mine off... you take yours off... and I unzip your pants... you lift yourself up and I slide your panties down.


• 9:23am (Indigo) I toss your panties to the pilot and he takes a long, slow appreciative whiff. You giggle, obviously loving it.... with some effort I maneuver to lick your pussy.


• 9:24am (Indigo) One leg draped over my shoulder, the pilot has full view, which he takes every once in awhile. You have to remind him to watch the controls.


• 9:26am (Indigo) You start moaning when I begin finger fucking you, you gasp and realize that you don't be quiet... You're about to cum so I stop.


• 9:29am (Indigo) I take my pants off exposing my hard cock, I help you get onto the seat, your face toward the window, your knees on the padding between the seats.


• 9:28am (Violet) You bad boy! Making me horny when I'm already breathless! Baby I want you so much!
  


• 9:30am (Indigo) Oh? Is this making you horny? I'm just telling you what I'm thinking about. Don't you want to know what's on my mind. Communication, right?


• 9:32am (Indigo) Now I'm going to fuck you from behind... Enjoying the scenery? I slide myself into you and slap your ass as you press back into me...


• 9:34am (Indigo) Now the pilot takes his cock out and starts stroking it... you tell him he has a nice looking cock and he smiles.


• 9:36am (Indigo) I nod to you and you reach over the seat and start stroking his cock... he moans as you feel a twitch under your touch, I move about and re-enter you from behind.


• 9:41am (Violet) Honey I'm so horny you're driving me mad!!!
  


• 9:41am (Indigo) He starts playing with your nipple while you stroke, tugging on it... he's encouraged as you hiss yessssssss...


• 9:41am (Indigo) I play with your other nipple... Like having two men playing with your tits? I reach around and spread your pussy so I can fuck you deeper.


• 9:41am (Indigo) My fingers explore your clit while I slam into you... the pilots seat is jarring, his head rocks with each thrust... I'm going to cum in you baby!


• 9:43am (Indigo) You feel his cock twitch and you gasp "Oh my god!" as he cums all over your fist. You feel me buck against me about to cum as you release.


• 9:43am (Indigo) All of which is too much for me and I make a final thrust, cumming inside you...
  


• 9:45am (Indigo) You horny baby? Gonna cum for me under the covers? Want me under there licking you?


• 10:01am (Indigo) Have a happy horny day baby! I love you so much! Hope I relieved some boredom.
  

I'm on the phone with Violet as I write this. She tells me that initially she was just smiling when she read the first few messages, thinking that I was a "naughty boy" but then she got carried away with the mood. She started very gently brushing her hands over her nipples in a way that others couldn't see. She then says she went into a semi-dreamlike state and played the fantasy in her head. Unfortunately she couldn't actually cum because there where too many people about. She's NOT very good at quietly cumming in public... well, there was the one time at the party... but that's a story for another day.

By the way, are there any small plane pilots reading this?

Love,
Indigo

cyber love tips no 1

• Keep in regular contact, become a communication expert, if you aren’t going to be able to be online when you said make sure you use every means available to let your lover know. I will send a text, use skype (thank god for skype!), email, and if you are able to phone. I find I worry so much if Indigo isn’t there when he says he will be, it’s not like living down the road and being able to pop in a check. Communication is THE key to a successful cyber relationship.
  
• Don’t forget to court the person you’re with, yes you can’t take the person to the movies, or out for dinner, but you can send ecards, and virtual hugs, Indigo and I used to send each other long email on the night we couldn’t be together, I remember once Indigo sent me beautiful flowers to my work, just because he loved me! Remember if the net brought you together, use it, you can literally do anything on it, and it’s not reason to not spoil each other and let your lover know you love them.
  
  
  
• Plan dates, like you would in Real life, plan what you’re going to do together, plan things.
  Send sexy photo’s, this is no time to be shy, hot photo’s are great , but be selective, don’t send it all at once.
  
• Get creative on webcam, Be naughty, outrageous, I shocked myself by giving myself a veggie fuck on webcam while Indigo watched! He loved it and it made us laugh and have great cyber sex!
  
• This is totally different to a Real life relationship, You need to be very naughty on webcam. And anything that pops into your head to do, try it! OK the fucking myself with a ice lolly wasn’t a great idea, but hey it felt good…..for a while!
  
• Be there when you’re needed, Indigo has spent many a night, and day with me crying in his ear, telling him my troubles, he is always my best friend and will listen to anything I need to talk about. And I have done the same for him.
  Remember there are great sides to this, I have talked to Indigo more than I have ever talked to anyone else, we know almost everything about each other. Sometimes it is so much easier to chat in the cyber world than in Real life.
  
• Girls, keep your lip-gloss next to the bed! For those late night touch ups!
  
• Go out and buy amazing underwear, do a online strip tease!
  
• Be honest as well it’s hard to know what’s going on around a webcam, so if real life is calling, tell your lover, other wise you’ll start resenting the other, or you will come across as distracted, or worse you that you aren’t interested.
  
• And last but not least tell your lover you love them regularly

Love Violet xxx

Violet

The internet changed my life completely and forever! In the beginning of 2007 I was in a horrible relationship, and had been in it for almost 20 years! I was bored, and fed up with life in general, then one day I was at the doctors, reading a article and out popped this intriguing article about a web game called Second Life, I remember clearly it said, that it was amazing fun and very addictive. Up until then the net had only been for sending email, and to do online shopping. So that night when my then husband went to work instead of sitting being bored and binging on rubbish I created a character and logged on! Within minutes I was cyber chatting to the sweetest man, who taught me so much….. And within days I was having the most mind blowing cybersex!
I had believed, or been convinced , that I had become frigid until then!. I was so addicted, I couldn’t wait until my ex went to work. I encouraged him to do as much overtime as possible so I could log on and that night be sexy, attractive, young, naughty me. I could meet someone new and have mind blowing sex, no strings attached! Some of the men I met were more special than others and we would have a cyber relationship for a while. I felt amazing, I could attract any man and have them eating out of my hand, (and out of other portions of my anatomy) within minutes. It changed me in real life to, I realised I was a attractive woman, I could attract men, and my self confidence was being restored.
I was having the time of my life, and then one day someone started teasing me, and being really cheeky. Up until then I had always had the upper hand with my lover, always had them begging for more, but this man was different! I had finally met my match….the man who is my soul mate, my lover, my best friend, and all my dreams come true.
We'll share more about us as this blog progresses, and since we'll publish anonymously we won't hold anything back. We'll share our stories of our online adventures and through a bit in about our long-distance relations ship and frequent meetings with you. And of course we'll talk about cybersex and keeping online cyber relationships red hot. I hope you'll come back and see us often!

Love Violet xxx

Credentials Baby!

My first experience with cyber-sex happened sometime in the late 80's on a very primitive text-only service called "People Link". My former wife and I chatted ourselves into severe debt on that thing, but what a rush! We could get online every night and fool around with a different partner, what could be better.
Often she'd be chatting with some guy and I'd be standing behind her reading over her shoulder, massaging her nipples through her shirt, or I'd be typing and she'd be under the table sucking me off while I read the conversation to her. Sometimes rather than sitting on the chair in front of the keyboard she'd be bent over it, and I'd be standing behind her fucking her while she described exactly what was happening to some eager listener on the other end of the conversation. Ah, good times...
Then the $600 bill came and that was the end of that until 1993 when my wife and I joined the Sierra Network, which was renamed ImagiNation. It didn't take long to find the Married Life room where naturally most of the sex was going on (very little of it between people who were married to each other!). Nobody gets hot and heavy like bored married people. Alas, my ImagiNation bill also exceeded my budget, but fortunately this was the dawn of the internet and the rise of cheap cyber-debautury. One of my cyber-lovers (I wish I could remember her name) helped me get started and soon I was on IRC (internet relay chat) getting my rocks off--for nothing more than the cost of the monthly internet connection.
Over the years I've played online quite a bit, met dozens of great people, and had some amazing fantasy lovers. One of these lover's became my real life partner and co-author (if she gets her very sexy ass in gear!)
What I'm trying to say here, is I've been around the servers a few times and have a thing to say about love on the internet. I'd like to share some of my ideas and observations with like minded people and see what we figure out. Want to encourage me? Subscribe!

Love, Indigo