Warm Up and Welcome

Good cyber-sex, like good real-life sex requires a combination of chemistry, enthusiasm and technique. So you're out the net, you find a sexy partner, and wow, the chemistry is there. Enthusiasm? Well that's a given. Then you lean in for that first virtual kiss--and things go downhill from there. Thud!

This blog is about creative collaboration of the dirty kind (cybersex), and how to have a GREAT time doing it.

It's written by Violet and Indigo whose cyber-relationship has crossed the ocean and blossomed into a life-altering romance. Perhaps some of our experiences will inspire your own adventures!

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Sunday, July 27, 2008

Credentials Baby!

My first experience with cyber-sex happened sometime in the late 80's on a very primitive text-only service called "People Link". My former wife and I chatted ourselves into severe debt on that thing, but what a rush! We could get online every night and fool around with a different partner, what could be better.
Often she'd be chatting with some guy and I'd be standing behind her reading over her shoulder, massaging her nipples through her shirt, or I'd be typing and she'd be under the table sucking me off while I read the conversation to her. Sometimes rather than sitting on the chair in front of the keyboard she'd be bent over it, and I'd be standing behind her fucking her while she described exactly what was happening to some eager listener on the other end of the conversation. Ah, good times...
Then the $600 bill came and that was the end of that until 1993 when my wife and I joined the Sierra Network, which was renamed ImagiNation. It didn't take long to find the Married Life room where naturally most of the sex was going on (very little of it between people who were married to each other!). Nobody gets hot and heavy like bored married people. Alas, my ImagiNation bill also exceeded my budget, but fortunately this was the dawn of the internet and the rise of cheap cyber-debautury. One of my cyber-lovers (I wish I could remember her name) helped me get started and soon I was on IRC (internet relay chat) getting my rocks off--for nothing more than the cost of the monthly internet connection.
Over the years I've played online quite a bit, met dozens of great people, and had some amazing fantasy lovers. One of these lover's became my real life partner and co-author (if she gets her very sexy ass in gear!)
What I'm trying to say here, is I've been around the servers a few times and have a thing to say about love on the internet. I'd like to share some of my ideas and observations with like minded people and see what we figure out. Want to encourage me? Subscribe!

Love, Indigo

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